Candlelight vigil I attended last night in Union Square, NYC for Jyoti Singh Pandey, the victim of the brutal gang rape in New Delhi.
The vigil, organized by Sakhi, drew a lot of South Asian women, but also men, along with whites, African Americans, and others.
How is it that this one particular act of sexual violence, thousands of miles away, has resonated so deeply with Americans and others in the West?
“What I’m seeing for the first time, really, is American feminists and American women’s organizations seeing the moment in India as an opening for us to be talking about what’s going on in the United States as well,” said Mallika Dutt, who heads the New York/New Delhi-based women’s rights group Breakthrough. “Women in the United States are saying ‘When are we going to see the day when we see young men in America really get out onto the streets and support ending violence against women there?’”
Many activists argue that the rape incident in India wasn’t the product of some far-flung, patriarchal society but speaks to global patterns of abuse.
“I don’t think we’ve had anything as galvanizing in sexual assault in more than 20 years, since the Central Park jogger case,” said Sonia Ossorio, who heads the New York City chapter of NOW, the National Organization for Women. “We’re hearing from women, and men, and fathers every single day, here in our office.”
Patrick Lemmon, co-founder or the Washington DC-based group Men Can Stop Rape, says the presence of so many men at demonstrations in India dovetails with contemporary efforts to involve American men in conversations about violence, before any crime is committed. And he’s hopeful that something good will ultimately emerge.
“We’ve seen tens of thousands of people gathering in the streets, talking about this issue in India, in ways that, from what I’m reading, has not happened before,” he said. “So this is the real moment of possibility. It’s an incredible tragedy, and we have an opportunity, as a world and as the nation of India, to say ‘This is not who we are. We choose to be different.’”
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